Unspoken rules of networking

5 rules — each one links to the scenario that teaches it.

“A clean exit at a networking event signals social competence, not rudeness.”

“Pre-interview small talk isn't on the rubric but accounts for most of the gut feeling.”

“"Pick your brain" from someone senior is almost never just curiosity — it's a low-commitment audition.”

“First-week small talk is an audition — the new hire is mapping who's safe.”

“Toxic positivity after layoffs is a way of making yourself feel better, not them.”

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